Advance planning for health care is always a work in progress. That’s because  circumstances change, and lives change. One’s values and priorities even change. As  a sage remarked, “The world looks different when you’re horizontal rather than  vertical.” To ensure your wishes are honored, it’s essential to keep your advance directive up to date and properly shared with key individuals.

Communication is the single most important step in health care planning.  Talk about your wishes with the people who may be called upon to speak or decide for you. The more thoroughly you communicate, the easier it will be for everyone to respect your wishes.

At age 18, your son or daughter is legally an adult, and you no longer have the “legal” authority to make educational, health or financial decisions for them, nor will you be allowed to substitute your preferences over theirs during a life emergency. As parents, it is vitally important for you to educate and assist your children in executing these documents.